I would like to talk about marriage and relationships. The first thing I would like to say is that you can’t have a good marriage or relationship without having God in it. You have to pray without ceasing, learning to not be selfish and to think about others. You have to have TRUST, LOVE and a really good friendship because without these your relationship or marriage will fail. I feel the main reason why people’s relationships or marriages do not work is because you are steadily comparing your relationship or marriage to someone else’s. This is the number 1 mistake that everyone makes. No marriage or relationship is the same, what works for someone else doesn’t mean it will work your relationship or marriage.
You and your significant other have to find what works for the two of you not what works for other people. Communication is the KEY to everything without it you will surely be miserable and your relationship or marriage will fail. To have a successful relationship in my opinion you have to listen and hear each other, don’t half listen and don’t let why your partner is saying go in one ear and out the other. You have to listen and learn to compromise. Once you learn how to do these things the two of you will be able to be truly happy. Also don’t argue or scream when you have a disagreement just talk about it calmly and listen because that’s how things get solved. You can’t possibly listen to Someone if you’re screaming and yelling while they are talking and they can’t listen to you if you’re yelling and screaming.
Take turns when talking and if you don’t like something your partner is saying try to come to a compromise. Too many people let a really good thing go because they want to be stupid and not work your problems out. Well guess what a marriage and/or relationship is a full time JOB. You have to work on it everyday and put your all into. This is where people get messed up because they think once they are in a relationship or marriage it’s supposed to be easy and you can do what you want. It’s not easy but it’s doable and you can’t per say do what you want. You have to compromise and put in the work. There are verses in the bible that helps with relationship and marriages. Go to God with your problems not other people because once you start letting outsiders in they will make the problem worse. All advice is not good advice!
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